For the ones who feel the quiet pull to look inward.
Not because you’re “wrong.”
Not because you need to perform being good.
But because something in you knows there is more truth underneath what you were taught to believe.
The Deconstruction Guide is not here to teach you how to be the “perfect ally.”
It’s here to help you remember who you are beneath the programming.
To soften into awareness.
To meet your humanity with honesty, compassion, and depth.
To come home to your own integrity.
✨ Now available as Pay What You Can because liberation and self-return should be accessible to anyone willing to look inward.
WHY I CREATED THIS
For years, I carried beliefs that weren’t mine, shaped by systems, survival, culture, identity, and fear.
And what I discovered is this: deconstruction isn’t about guilt, perfection, or “getting it right.”
It’s about slowing down long enough to hear yourself again.
This guide was born from that place.
Not as a manual.
Not as a checklist.
But as a mirror.
A gentle invitation to sit with what you've inherited…and choose what you want to carry forward.
It blends the inner work, the belief work, the nervous system work, and the soul-work. It’s a companion for those who want to lead, parent, love, and exist from a place of awareness, not conditioning.
WHAT’S INSIDE -
🌿 AWARENESS - Meet Your Conditioning
Slow, grounded prompts that help you trace where your beliefs, biases, and reactions were formed without shame, defensiveness, or pressure.
🌀 UNLEARNING - Release What Isn’t Yours
Reflective practices that help you soften old identities, interrupt generational patterns, and untangle the narratives shaped by whiteness, gender norms, hierarchy, and survival.
🔥 EMBODIMENT - Return to Integrity & Humanity
Tools to reconnect with your values, your intuition, your truth so you can lead, love, and live from alignment rather than approval or fear.
📘 35+ pages of inner work, introspection, belief exploration, and identity liberation.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF…
✨ You’re a therapist, healer, or space-holder who wants to embody the work you teach
✨ You’re a parent, partner, or community member wanting to show up with depth, clarity, and compassion
✨ You’re a leader or professional beginning to see where unconscious patterns show up in your work
✨ You’re a human who feels the friction between who you were shaped to be… and who you’re becoming
THIS IS NOT…
❌ A checklist for being “woke”
❌ A performative allyship manual
❌ A script for saying the right thing
This is for the soul. For the slow, gentle, necessary internal shifts that make external change possible.
❤️ YOU’LL LOVE THIS GUIDE IF…
💭 You crave depth, not dogma
💭 You’re tired of guilt, shame, or fear running the show
💭 You want to lead your life from integrity rather than performance
💭 You’re ready to unlearn with compassion, context, and real honesty
💸 PAY WHAT YOU CAN
Deconstruction is human work and it should be accessible to every human willing to do it. That’s why this guide is now under a Pay-What-You-Can model.
You choose your contribution.
I trust your capacity.
And the work meets you exactly where you are.
💰 Suggested range: $25 – $55 USD
A GENTLE INVITATION
You don’t need to be perfect to begin.
You don’t need the right words, the right language, or the right identity.
You just need a willingness to look inward - honestly, softly, and without performance.
If you’re ready to return to yourself… if you’re ready to meet your humanity with depth and truth… this guide will hold you.
Choose your price. Start your unlearning.
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